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Post by kadinya on Jun 22, 2005 9:35:49 GMT
I have known this girl for nearly four years..we came close to going out but left it to be pals and since then we have enjoyed some good time together.
When she got a boyfriend...it never changed the way we related as pals.
Now she is engaged and getting married to this jama and honestly...even though I should be happy for her, I am suddenly feeling terrible like she is being taken away from me.
Maybe I should have told her..that I cared when I had the chance to.............The fact that she is marrying someone esle is killing me.
Is this normal or I am just loosing it?
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Post by KhaSupu on Jun 22, 2005 10:13:24 GMT
Yes u r losing it! Enda ujinyonge! Faint heart never won fair lady. Now why did u zub for all those yrs?!!!Shauri yakoooooo,Shauri yako weeeee!
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Post by Bogibenda on Jun 22, 2005 10:21:16 GMT
That was a bit harsh...suphuuuu.
Kadinya (what a name) I think you should just try and be happy for the pal. It sounds like you have gotten down with her on a number of occassions and you cannot handle the fact that she will be having a permanent one at home.
I hope you are not invited to the wedding
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Post by kadinya on Jun 22, 2005 14:46:36 GMT
Wee Bogi B!!!!! the card has not landed at my door step yet which makes me think that she is probably feeling the same as I do.
I dont wanna go but if i do not..then questions will be asked, and then again if I go, something will be chewing me from inside.
I am still in Dillema
Khasupuuu, that was so helpfull, thanks.
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msjones
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in this life all is vanity
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Post by msjones on Jun 22, 2005 16:08:35 GMT
WIFE SI NGUO ATI UTAOMBA MTU.
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Post by mrembo on Jun 22, 2005 20:31:50 GMT
Kadinya ebu get real. I thought u were a real jamaa who knew how to handle ya biz, kumbe uko tu! Si ajabu the other dude won ;D Btw, Kadinya, wewe ni aka. Sitasema nani but me thinks najua, juu I've heard this storo before. But in the meantime, best bet would be to love the one you are with, you might marry him/her
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Post by Qute on Jun 23, 2005 11:47:44 GMT
Case of you dont know what you got till its gone? You had your chance but ignored it, too bad. Let her go and be happy for her plus am sure she'll not become your enemy after the wedding unless you choose to be ;D!
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Post by cLaNKk on Jun 23, 2005 18:15:15 GMT
Dude, you should be counting your blessings. Think of it a a footballer on loan, the other club pays all the expenses and you get to enjoy their services. HAHAHA
Lakini pole I know the cardiac is in pain and it will get worse as she becomes more happier with him and she blossoms. Drop some hints and trust me, pundesh will be available.
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Karyna
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Post by Karyna on Jul 12, 2005 10:15:05 GMT
Train your heart to let go...it is no easy task i will tell you...but if you do not let go you will never be happy. Be happy for her. She has made her decision to get married. You will be hurting and torturing yourself worrying over her and she will be very happy...maybe not even thinking about you. Let go pal....once you do...trust me you will be happy and won't have to cry over spilt milk. Don't let the past drag you down....concentrate on the future now....i believe that there is someone for everyone. Maybe you were just not meant to be together.
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Post by shykoh on Jul 13, 2005 9:28:04 GMT
woiye, you poor thing. Atleast you have learnt that the next time you meet someone and feel bag loads for them, do not hesitate to tell them. I had a near experience too because I felt so much for this boy in college and all along I thought that because he was the man he would make a move when he was interested. Little did I know that he was twice as shy as me and it was not untill he went out with one of the girls in my course that I realised how silly I had been to keep it to myself.
Life's little lessons.
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Post by keeyan on Jul 14, 2005 18:08:37 GMT
I have known this girl for nearly four years..we came close to going out but left it to be pals and since then we have enjoyed some good time together. When she got a boyfriend...it never changed the way we related as pals. Now she is engaged and getting married to this jama and honestly...even though I should be happy for her, I am suddenly feeling terrible like she is being taken away from me. Maybe I should have told her..that I cared when I had the chance to.............The fact that she is marrying someone esle is killing me. Is this normal or I am just loosing it? Hahaha you're not losing it..you lost already! Bahahahaha
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Post by shykoh on Jul 25, 2005 9:58:48 GMT
I think that if someone is supposed to be yours whether she marries P Diddy or whoever, she will still come back to ya. There is not much you can do about fate. Just max somewhere and the laydee will be back running..if fate wrote that she was yours to be.
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Misdemeanor
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Post by Misdemeanor on Sept 17, 2006 17:37:31 GMT
I think that if someone is supposed to be yours whether she marries P Diddy or whoever, she will still come back to ya. There is not much you can do about fate. Just max somewhere and the laydee will be back running..if fate wrote that she was yours to be. LMFAO Geez heheheheh .... you actually believe this ..... ok let me try and respect your opinion lol.[/color]
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BettyBoo
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frankly my dear, I don't give a d**n .......
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Post by BettyBoo on Oct 25, 2006 18:20:43 GMT
haki pole but your story sounds like a song by R Kelly te! hee! hee! LOL!
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